In answering this question, we must differentiate between the teachings of
Islam and the practice of some Muslims. Although some Muslim cultures oppress
women, it often reflects local customs that are inconsistent, if not contrary
to Islamic teachings. Islam expects its believers to uphold the rights of
women, to protect their social status and prevent their degradation in every
way. Islam furthers holds that woman are equal to men in their origin, their
humanity, their honor and their accountability before Allah Almighty عَزَّوَجَلَّ.
Today, western societies have actually downgraded women to sex objects. The
idea that Islam treats women as second class citizens worth half a man is
nothing but a myth. Islam elevated the status of women over 1,400 years ago by
declaring them the sisters of men as believers, giving them the right to
education to the highest level, the right to inheritance, in general, and the
rights of a full citizen of the state. Not only material and physical rights,
but those of kindness and consideration are equally specified and significant
is Islamic Law.
Men and women are two equally important component parts of humanity, and
the rights and responsibilities of both sexes are equitable and balanced in
their totality. Roles of man and women are complementary and collaborative.
Although their obligations might differ in certain areas of life in accordance
with their basic physical and psychological differences, each is equally
accountable for their particular responsibilities.
Under Islamic Law, when a Muslim woman gets married she does not surrender
her maiden name, but keeps her distinct identity.
In a Muslim marriage, the groom gives a Mahr (mandatory gift) to the bride
herself, and not to her father. This becomes her own personal property to keep,
invest or spend, and is not subject to the dictates of any of her male
relatives. The glorious Quran places on men the responsibility of protecting
and maintaining all of their female relatives. It means, as well, that a man
must provide for his wife and family even if she has wealth of her own. She is
not obligated to spend any of her money towards the maintaining of her family.
This relieves a woman of the need to earn a living, but she can work if she
chooses to do so or if her circumstances warrant it, providing she follows the
rules, which the Shari’ah (Sacred Law of Islam) has prescribed for her in
regard to the employment (for further details regarding the conditions of woman’s
employment, read the book of Ameer-e-Ahle Sunnat hadrat Moulana Muhammad Ilyas
Attar Qadir ‘Parde ke bare me Suwaal Jawaab’).
The family, like any other organization, needs order and leadership. The
majestic Quran states that the husband has a “degree” of authority over his
wife, which means guardianship. It is important to note, however, that
guardianship is in no way a license to be a tyrant within the household.
Rather, it is a burden upon him for his wife and children.
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